On top of that, you are struggling to feel seen and heard. How have you been together so long, but sometimes it feels as if they are a complete stranger?
You miss the butterflies you used to get, and it makes you sad to think you will never feel that kind of desire, passion, or excitement again.
Your frustration is increasing...
The silence between you is deafening...
And you are growing further and further apart.
What's a girl to do?!?!
This season of life is often one that gets overlooked. After all, you've been around the block a time or two. You are settled in your career. Maybe even looking forward to retiring in a few years. Your kids are either grown or pretty self-sufficient. To the outside world, it seems like you really got your shit together, but you know you are just pretending. It's too embarrassing to admit that you are questioning every decision you have ever made, including who you sleep next to every night.
But contrary to popular belief, this is one of the MOST important seasons. It's not necessary to shrink back and just live the life you have been dealt. You don't have to settle for a boring relationship that consists of the same routine day after day. There's no need to be frustrated because there is no fire, passion, or excitement in your bedroom.
It's time you finally figure out what you want in your relationship.
And when it just naturally didn't, I assumed there were only 2 solutions. Either fake it and pretend like I was living my very best life, or ignore it and hope the whole situation would just go away.
Well...it didn't just go away. And I was getting really tired of pretending. I was using every excuse in the book the avoid any type of intimacy because I just always ended up frustrated and was becoming increasingly irritated.
We were arguing more and more. We spent way more time apart than we did together. There were days where we barely spoke. And in order for us to deal with it, he would spend his time at the bar or hanging out with friends and I would head straight for the mall.
I knew something had to change...
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